Author: John Mathews, LCSW

Therapeutic Alliance – How to Achieve Success

Therapeutic Alliance – How to Achieve Success

The therapeutic alliance is the working relationship between client and therapist. Friendship is an equality made of harmony. According to a growing body of research, the therapeutic alliance may be the most important factor to a successful therapeutic outcome — more important, even, than the therapist’s theoretical orientation, or approach to therapy. So, what makes…

Jumping to Conclusions: For Better Results, Look Before You Leap

Jumping to Conclusions: For Better Results, Look Before You Leap

Jumping to conclusions is a cognitive distortion, or a faulty pattern of thought, in which a person makes unhelpful assumptions that are not supported by evidence. These “jumps” are leaps into the unknown. Jumping to conclusions is a particularly common cognitive distortion because we all must draw conclusions based on partial or incomplete information. Therefore,…

Blaming: Finding Fault in the Wrong Places

Blaming: Finding Fault in the Wrong Places

Blaming is a cognitive distortion, or a faulty thought pattern, that causes a person to wrongly assign the responsibility of a negative outcome either to oneself or another. This cognitive distortion occurs when one wrongly blames another for one’s own actions, or when one wrongly assumes responsibility for others’ actions. Examples of blaming others Often,…

CBT Triangle: A Map for Understanding How to Feel Better

CBT Triangle: A Map for Understanding How to Feel Better

The CBT triangle (or cognitive triangle) is a model for illustrating the relationship between thoughts, behaviors, and emotions. This model acts as a map for understanding the relationship between these three points (thoughts, behaviors, and emotions), and how we can make changes to habits of thought and behavior to help us feel better. This model…

Overgeneralization: Applying One Bad Experience to Them All

Overgeneralization: Applying One Bad Experience to Them All

Overgeneralization is a cognitive distortion, or a faulty thought pattern, that causes a person to generalize the outcome of one or several negative events to all similar events. It is the error of drawing a big conclusion from a small sample. We all have to make assumptions based on incomplete information. Otherwise, we couldn’t function…